Monday, February 11, 2008

Bens thanks for the Christmas card

I received a letter today from Ben. He informed me he wanted everyone to be able to read his response to the Christmas card Post thingy we created. I am posting this here as well as on foxfyredreamer.blogspot.com (if you have not been invited to the foxfyredreamer blog let me know as it is a PRIVATE blog. Members can also post.)

Hey,
I don't know what to say. I received a few cards this year and as always I am so grateful for those reminders that we are family and that we love one another. However, I have never been sent a card quite like the one I got this year. I cannot put into words the feeling I experienced as I opened the obviously homemade card and read the names and notes. This card was by far the most wonderful gift I have received in many years. I read each and every note carefully, and then read them all over again. Some who signed this card have not written me in years, and some send letters as unfailing and steadfast as the sunrise, but all were so very welcome. I could not have asked for a better family; and Jonathan, to name one, has been as great a source of strength and inspiration as a mountain waterfall heavy with spring rain is to an artist. You cannot know what it meant to me, this simple card of well wishing and the intentions it was built upon. Strange how the non-physical can mean so much at times. All that I can say is thank you. Truly, deeply, most sincerely, I thank you. I hope this year will bring happiness and prosperity to us all.
All my love,
Dave

The "card" he speaks of was a combination of a card I made and comments on this post. If you care to read them.

I also would like to add that NOW is the time to step up and give him hope. In his personal letter to me he let me know that he has felt...in limbo recently. He feels it is another stage of "institutionalization"...in his words:
"I now realize that I am scared to get out. I am immobilized and struck by confusion from a seemingly over-complicated world." ...."...I want to get out, but I am scared of it as well...when I start to think about it I get really tripped out."

He goes on to say that he will figure it out...but at the time of the writing he was feeling it pretty strong. Our timing on the calendar and moving forward full steam ahead in support of him...is probably inspired...after reading his thoughts.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Im glad you posted this here too just in case people didn't remember to go to the foxfyre blog or haven't signed up yet. I think its his best letter yet and a really beautiful way of saying that we should and could do better- he's our little brother. WE should be the rock he can count on. I blame myself as much as anyone else but the hardest thing is to think that you can have such a huge family and EVER have the need to feel alone.

N8 said...

Anne told me to give this to you http://n8teuscher.blogspot.com/

cjmom said...

Hi Jon, I got an email from you saying I could get onto Ben's site, but it didn't work, can you email me again and I will retry. my most active email address is ccwinward53@msn.com thanks

Hot MMMama said...

Great job to every one who wrote in for Ben's card, and Thank you for making the entire process easy and smooth for us Mr. Faminy O Chaos!!


P.S. No post on the new job? We want details...what you do for them... would be a great beginning!


CONGRATULATIONS!!!!